My mother, my poor dear mother. But when I think of how old my grandmother was when she was my mother's age, I think my mother is doing very well.
But every time we have made the trip, she thinks it is the last time she will muster up the energy.
Until I asked her recently. And she lit up.
"Do I want to go? Of COURSE! CLARO!!
I take that as a VERY good sign. ;)